© 2019 Martial Art of Parenting

Wondering how you can help your child GROW through life's greatest challenges while making your bond even stronger?

You've already tried...

  • Reading a bunch of parenting books.

  • Talking to other parents for advice.

  • Going to see expensive experts.

  • Getting your child tested.

 

 

You've been working your A game as a parent and still struggling to see results!

Bottom line:

 

You find yourself feeling overwhelmed, stuck, full of self-doubt, and understandably confused about what to do next?

What you actually need

is something which is...

  • More PRACTICAL!                                               Directions which are concrete, simple and totally DOABLE. 

  • More EFFECTIVE                                              Steps proven to work to strengthen your bond and to    establish more order, respect, and ease in your home.

  • Affirming YOUR WAY as a parent!

  ​Guidance which helps you to understand and trust your

   own instincts in difficult moments. 

  • More FUN!                                                            Something which gets you and your kid(s) excited and in a state of joy, while challenging you both to grow!

What we DO NOT TEACH: 

  • Clever ways to try to bribe, control or coerce your child(ren).

  • Over reliance on reward systems.

  • Blanket parenting advice: It’s all about____"(fill in the blank)

  • Blindly following the latest trends and experts who push 2 Dimensional approaches.

The REAL GOAL here is... 

The Martial Art of Parenting (M.A.P.) is a dynamic “way” of learning which leads us to evolve into parents who are...

MEET your SENSEI

  • 25 years of working with kids (of all ages)

  • 12 years working with parents and families (with neuro-diverse and complex LDMH)

  • A black belt in AIKIDO (which took me twice as long to earn -- being a slow -- yet deep -- learner)

  • Being a parent myself.

Sensei David JURASEK

The parents and kids I have served, have taught me a few things that I believe...

5 TRUTHS

EVERY PARENT

NEEDS to KNOW: 

PARENTS are the MOST IMPORTANT person in our child’s lives. (Teachers, peers, beloved coaches, master therapists, and fancy experts all come a distant second and third…)

1

Under emotional stress, we ALL devolve into “reactive parenting” 

Whether it is by being a brick wall, an ostrich, or a jelly fish, we all become a  caricatured version of us that is not very effective. 

2

We tend to look for and find experts to confirm our default parenting style -- which leads us to avoid our blindspots and fall for our "confirmation bias" -- finding only the info which we agree with already! 

3

We lack frames to accurately ASSESS what is really happening and why.   

So, we jump to conclusions, project and judge ourselves and our kids in ways that entrench us in the patterns that are not working! 

4

We never learned how to effectively DISCERN the best way to respond.   

We have no compass or reference points for knowing what makes our decision as a parent WISE or EFFECTIVE -- so we become anxious, doubt ourselves or rigid and double down on our poor parenting decisions. 

5

The Good NEWS: 

When taught The Martial Art of Parenting..

most PARENTS see positive results

in their kids while becoming themselves

BRAVER, KINDER, STRONGER and WISER!

Get help now

Want to help your child/teen 

and yourself, right away?

Or dive into training

-- with no cost but your time --

below..

THE 1st + MOST IMPORTANT

LIFE SKILL

I teach every

parent & CHILD... 

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* works with toddlers and 30 year-olds living in your basement!

FAIR WARNING: 

Your son or daughter will very likely 

use it on you also, but don't worry,

it will only make you an even more awesome parent!